{"id":1346,"date":"2011-11-18T12:30:03","date_gmt":"2011-11-18T12:30:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/test.transversalmedia.eu\/in-re-gaslighting-i-think-theres-one-crucial\/"},"modified":"2011-11-18T12:30:03","modified_gmt":"2011-11-18T12:30:03","slug":"in-re-gaslighting-i-think-theres-one-crucial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theresearchpapers.org\/archive\/in-re-gaslighting-i-think-theres-one-crucial\/","title":{"rendered":"In re gaslighting: I think there&#8217;s one crucial difference separating society-wide racial gaslighting and SO much individual gaslighting. Individual gaslighting in the sense of abusers is deliberately false in that the abuser KNOWS they abused; this is true of societal gaslighting as well. With the individual racism deniers though, the majority seem to truly believe that the racism doesn&#8217;t exist. 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