I have to say, I’m a woman and I like porn a lot. I subscribe to a service that’s like the Netflix of porn, so u can get so many genres. And I watch it for pleasure, to de-stress, and… its one of the few places in media where u see women with REAL bodies!! With stretch marks, chunky monkies (not obese, just thick women). You get people with big boobs, no boobs, anorexics, obese, I mean everything! And u know what? I like the naughty nurse (not too much the schoolgirl) and secretary/boss, I like the gangbangs and three-somes. I also like it when both parties look like theyre really into it and making out and stuff… so… I’m not sure if Im an anomoly or the norm… bc Id NEVER admit in public that I watch porn, hahah, and even less admit what type of porn I watch. I’m black, so I dont mind the interracial stuff, kinda hard to find quality black porn. One MAJOR thing I dont like about the service I subscribe, the label all the porn by the WOMEN! And I like to watch it for the men. I have my favs, but its so hard to find them, except for Lex, hahah. Just wanted to add my experience to the pool. Bc when I watch the porn, I dont really look to see if a man or woman directed it. and if I see a vid that looks bad, like the women look really stressed, I dont watch it, eh.
Thank you so much for sharing.
I really, REALLY appreciate this because it illustrates the points I was trying to make much better than I did, providing first hand experience (pun not originally intended, but it stays).
I love blogging for this reason. How else do we get to even think of these issues? Let alone express them?
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