and all the discussions about trying to explain “internet friends” to people who are not familiar with the concept: I met my husband on the internet. 15 years ago.
Imagine explaining that to your mother back in the ‘90s. And then explaining something you “forgot to mention” before, which is that this is the same person with whom you spent a month traveling across Europe as buddies and later on lovers. And in the same breath, add that this is also the same guy who is coming over to help you pack your stuff for a trial move across the ocean.
That was a challenge.
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