“I see this article has inspired a lot of feelings in you”.
That is called “being triggered”. Inspiring bullshit, if one prefers a less polite way of putting it.
Additionally, I am not really qualified to write about this extensively, but I would like to posit the argument that co-dependency, as it is portrayed in pop-psych is just a bunch of pseudo scientific jargon. For some people, what unqualified “critics” deem to be “a co-dependent” relationship is a life saving one. It might be the anchor that keeps them grounded and in a healing space. Really, this portrayal of relationship dynamics of which someone might have absolutely no first hand experience is let’s just say, problematic (and yes, I am being, for once, unusually polite).
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